在這個特別的一天
我送了屆滿22歲的自己一個此生從未有過的大禮
就是,我很雞婆的把自己的sim卡鎖上了
到一種任何轉圜的餘地都沒有的地步,只有去找通訊行這個唯一辦法了
但是這裡是英國,不是台灣~所以這將會是一場硬仗了
憑著我破破爛爛的英文交涉能力.....歐(攤手)
多麼“幸運”阿我...也可以說是多麼慘阿
於是乎我不斷的責怪自己的豬頭..然後抱怨給家人聽(好啦我承認我有失控)
突然之間發現自己不再是我先前認為的那麼樣子的自己...我甚至是連脾氣都沒辦法好好的控制
EQ管理這時候對我來說就像是無稽之談一樣...
自忖道..我怎能如此輕易遷怒於人呢
成年人的“氣度”蕩然無存...
應該是要樂觀積極面對問題的而不是像個孩子一樣,試想著用哭用情緒來化解一切
但也許我這樣說孩子們並不公平...
因為吊軌的是..孩子們有時面對事情所表現出的態度竟然比所謂“成年”人還沈著以對
In this special day
I give myself a biggest present ever !!!which is I locked my mobile's sim card by accident without any remedial measure but go to mobile company only...
but I'm in UK...not Taiwan...so basically it could be a hard work for me...
ohhhh my poor English negotiated ability..
how lucky I am yet how awful it is....
so I couldn't stop to blamed myself and complain (n yelling though.. I admit) to the person who was skyping with me...
and suddenly, I realize that I'm not the person who I used to think so.. I couldn't even control my temperament well..
my EQ was getting to the worse enough circumstance ... how could I vent my anger to the others so easily...??
it's not an appropriate behavior of a mature person should-done at all...
I ought to face this trouble as much optimistic way... not just like children who always lose their temper when they meet some trouble or fail sth ...
but it might be quite unfair as I say so..haha cos somehow children would express calmer than a "mature" adult as they bump into a same struggle..