關於我們的新作業羅密歐與茱莉葉
我發覺自己竟然有點迷失在在課堂之中了
不只是大堂討論課如此，小組討論時更甚
特別是在當我開口問起某些個單字時，同學們臉上漾起的詫異以及播下問題後接踵而至的寂靜
再再讓我體會到～孤立感真正的意義何在
並不是我不懂他們再說什麼，也不是我不懂的表達自己，更不是我無法理解他們的思維
而是當這些能力都具備的同時卻仍然感受到迷失，以及困惑
這正是孤立感真正的內涵
然而這種尷尬的氛維並未持續很久，反而熱絡了起來
豁然間明白到，當每個人專著於一件事情，或者正在思考實所呈現出的慣性小動作及表情大相逕庭～
而那些驚訝或者困惑我為何不懂的表情，也許都是他們的反射習慣
阿，果然還是我太敏感阿
總之又是一番曲折的心境轉換歷程
我想說得是，問 ; 真的沒什麼大不了的，只要我有禮貌，並且不以為恥就一切都搞定
歐當然，絕對不要當一個無聲的人～要不然繳那麼多學費能幹嘛呢？
雖然說學習方式百百種，但是發問會是一個最有價值且能讓你快速成長的方式
畢竟事實證明，適時勇敢的表達自己和發問真的可以為你迎來許多機會
About our new project :Romeo & Juliet...
I figured that myself becoming a bit lost in class...
not only during the time as we having a whole class discussion but also in small group brainstorming time
especially when I asked a word which I really had no ideal to deal with ...n our group members' surprising expression ... they just stared at me and silence suddenly came up ,overwhelming our group block
from that time on.. I finally realized what is real isolate about... it's not just an emotion to feel not at home..it almost can be interpreted as much more deep yet negative inner feeling though
even though I've already had an ability to talk n communicate with others or even more to understand their general thought ... still, feeling lost and confusing
that's real isolate about.......
However , that awkward circumstance was not keeping such long instead started turning even more better than before...
the question about why those confused n surprising facial expressions would appear on their faces suddenly had a cure ...
oh ... maybe it all cos they was considering how to clarify those meaning to me so that they tends to be looked a bit different as usual....cos everyone got their own individual expression n sort of unique behavior as they quite concentrated on sth or thinking quite hard..
oh it's definitely my bad..I'm too sensitive loo
yea... quite a tortuous emotional switching kkk
anyway ...asking is not really a big deal , ...as I asked others with an appropriate manner, besides don't feel shame to ask .... do not hide yourself on the back and pretend as a voiceless guy.. even though I still quite shy but I do totally agree that asking is not an only way to learn yet it's indeed a worthiest way for me to promote myself faster ...
Be brave to ask and express yourself~otherwise you will lost lots of opportunity ...it's ture
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